Two weeks ago, we began our focus on health and wellness with a listing of the various theories that we use as informational resources for our clients in our health and wellness offerings. In my practice, I focus on a client’s inner thought process that often destroys their approach to becoming healthy, and how they can create a state of work-life balance. My practice is not life coaching, nor is it wellness coaching in its purest sense, but more of transition coaching in which I work with a client on a vision of what path they want to take in their life, and then how to take the steps towards that route. Many Americans (60% of the population, in fact) want to follow a slimmer path – as in, they want to lose some extra weight.
What about food?
The list of diet approaches being recommended by the doctors in our first entry is all variations on a theme. Both Melinda and I have worked through programs at the Institute of Integrative Nutrition and have studied these theories as well as a number of others in our training. We start the discussion with the views of Dr. Andrew Weil, who is the founder of the Arizona Center for Integrative Medicine. The crux of Dr. Weil’s opinion, which is being adopted by over 25% of the medical schools in the US includes:
- Restore the focus of medicine on health and healing
- Insist that human beings are more than just physical bodies – they are also spiritual, emotional, beings
- Insist on the importance of lifestyle practices – how to eat, how to handle stress, how to manage relationships, how to sleep, how to balance career, and so on
- Insist on the importance of the practitioner and patient relationship – allows the patient to tell their story
According to Dr. Weil, the key elements of a health-promoting lifestyle – stop eating refined, processed, and manufactured food. His premise includes that the diseases of aging, which include cardiovascular disease, neurodegenerative disease (Alzheimer’s, Parkinson’s) and cancers are not our natural fat but the outcome of the standard American diet. His working premise is that all of these diseases are caused by a combination of factors, but all are based on chronic low levels of inflammation. Inflammation is, of course, the cornerstone of the body’s healing response – we’ve all seen redness and swelling as we bruise our bodies. Dr. Weil asserts that we need to control this so that it ends when it has fulfilled its purpose.
Is disease inevitable?
So are these diseases a requirement for aging? No – you prevent this by eating healthy foods and meeting your core needs for relationships, spirituality, physical exercise, and your career. His teaching from a dietary perspective is to avoid processed foods, especially foods that are high in carbohydrates even if they, and perhaps especially if they claim to be whole grain or healthy. The standard processes that food manufacturers use pulverize the grains such that they have no real whole grains left in them. The resultant product has a higher glycemic index than white bread and is seen by the body as sugar. Nutrition labels can be deceiving; fat is not necessarily the culprit of obesity; excess carbs are the silent criminal.
His anti-inflammatory diet is written in his books and on his website. It is based on a colorful diet of various fruits and vegetables, fewer animal products (especially meat), more fish, olive oil, green tea, red wine, turmeric, ginger, and dark chocolate made with at least 70% cocoa. Most people prefer to eat delicious, healthy food rather than simply consume pills, and fortunately, Dr. Weil agrees that nutritional supplements should strictly be supplements and not substitutes for nutrient-dense food. However, fish oil, a multivitamin supplement, Vitamin D (especially north of Atlanta six months out of the year) should be taken with a fat-containing meal. On a side note, adequate levels of Vitamin D are critical in fighting off colds and flu in the winter especially. If you are bothered by these, there is a book discussing this available from Amazon and other retailers.
Keeping physically active in the second half of life is key, according to Dr. Weil and his study of centenarians who maintained physical activity, social support, and intellectual liveliness. You can see why I have chosen to start with this author’s works because it is our premise that being onCORE to your values, eating the right foods, and achieving whole life balance is essential to living a long life. From a physical activity perspective, things like walking, gardening, hunting, fishing, nature photography, biking outdoors and other daily activity is important as we age. It is not time to play basketball and run marathons – but a time to do things that are of a lower impact, such as swimming and walking. He also asserts that it is important for older people to be loved and embraced by younger people and to have a respected place in society.
Stress kills – it increases cortisol levels in the brain that kills cells in the hippocampus, which processes memories in the brain – so Dr. Weil promotes breathing techniques that are effective at reducing stress – these are found on Youtube if you are interested in them.
What I have gotten from this body of work and in reading Dr. Weil’s work is that I need to be balanced in my life; I need to be active, and I need to be spiritually grounded to manage stress. Dr. Weil believes that breathing exercises are great for reducing stress – groovy, right? No, I think that idea is about as stupid as the term “groovy.” Moving forward to the eighties, I think that meditation is actually “totally tubular.” Onward to the twenty-first century, I’d say it’s “awesome.” The key is managing stress, and for me, that means meditation. Earlier this week, after three days of too much Quickbooks and not enough stretching – I needed to meditate for about thirty minutes to relieve the pain and tension in my body that I only became aware of at eleven in the evening when I woke up with numb hands and sore legs because my lower back was out. I woke up my wife and asked her to get me a heating pad for my neck and some herbal tea and then consciously relaxed my pain points through mediation and relaxation until I was able to get to sleep. The alternative would have been a trip to the ER and hours of tests or prodding followed by, “It’s only stress, bozo, go home.” As I was writing this entry and listening to Dr. W; they only go to the doctor as a last resort. On the other hand, in America, we go immediately and expect some pill to fix us.
Importance of acceptance and self-love
Combining what I have taken away from Dr. Weil with what I am getting from Bruce Lipton, the quantum biologist, I have come away with my own theory for my approach to my health in the second half of life. Last week, I spoke of the environment in our bodies. according to Lipton, as producing things like excess fat – for me, excess stress means excess thinking about the past or worrying about the future – which means fat. And it also leads to the potential for disruption of the health of my brain, according to Weil.
This certainly explains the last couple of months for me, as personal stress has lead to a small weight gain, and I feel like I am often foggier than I have been. What has been missing is an intense exercise and regular meditation. I have not been focused on living an HD version of my life. I have not been fully engaged; I’ve only gone through the motions at times. I have allowed a personal source of stress to decrease my passion because, in the past, others have been hurt by my actions.
But others have been helped by the same actions, and how others receive my energy is not mine to control or predict. I can only be authentic and speak with my authentic voice and the truth. I cannot allow fear of how others might perceive me to stop me from being me.
So, is food the reason for obesity? Technically. However, Weil and Lipton agree that the environment in our bodies is a big part of the reason that we store fat, even when we do not have to. Toxic thinking leads to stress which leads to fat. So becoming well means eating the right foods, mostly plant-based and not processed, and balancing our primary needs for exercise, spirituality, relationships, and career.
One piece of advice directly from Dr. Weil: surround yourself with the people that you want to be like.